One of the things about working this blog is every once and a while I realize how completely full of shit I am.
For example, right now I’m working on a post about ‘not getting hung up on the differences between men and women.’ Which would be great except that it makes me a massive hypocrite because there is nothing I find more fascinating than the way women’s minds, hearts, and bodies work.
Men…not so much.
Let’s face it. Women are neat. Sometimes when a woman is revealing to me one of the mysteries of her femininity it is hard for me not to smile and go “That is so effin’ COOL.”
Exhibit A: the Female Orgasm.
I’m fascinated by the female sexual response. The male orgasm is a like a dog--it‘s frisky when young, slows with age, but will usually come when you call it. Women’s orgasms are like cats. Some are affectionate, some are aloof, but they come and go on their own schedule.
(I should qualify that last paragraph. I’ve never slept with a guy so I’ve always assumed we’re pretty much the same. I’ve also heard it on good authority that we’re more different than I gave us credit for, but the truth is, I don‘t really give a shit about the sexuality of any guy that isn‘t Mrs. Brodribb‘s handsome son. But if you have comments feel free to share them)
Women are all so darn different. Some women are multi-orgasmic. Some women have one big orgasm that goes on and on and on. Others can only come in certain positions, places, or with mechanical assistance. There as at least one woman out there who gets nosebleeds when she comes.
Each woman‘s sexuality is uniquely her own--some women behave in a way that reflects her personality; others display a surprising contrast to what they are like outside the bedroom. Each woman is a new continent waiting to be explored, mapped out, and yes, sometimes conquered.
Not to mention that having a woman come in your arms is just satisfying, like making a jump shot or unlocking the secret characters in a video game.
So yeah. When it comes to gender equality I don’t really practice what I preach. And since I made it a goal not to write something I don’t believe in or am not trying to bring into my own life, I guess I have an article to revise.
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